I have a confession to make. On my list of favorite holidays, Valentine’s Day has never really found its way to the top. It’s not that I’m cynical or anything. It’s more mainly the fact that — and I’ll admit it — I’ve never had a real valentine. No, I’m not talking about in elementary school when everyone in your class had to hand out those Disney Princess or SpongeBob SquarePants cards; I mean a legitimate valentine, the clich√É.√® one that plans a whole special day and takes you out and shows up at your door with flowers.

The thing is, though, it doesn’t bother me. I’ve seen friends, who are in relationships, be lavished with gifts, and while I’m sure the attention feels great, us single kids can be more than happy doing our own thing. So allow me to introduce my guide to surviving Valentine’s Day, the single way.

1. Calling all my single ladies, and guys.

I doubt you’re the only one without a valentine this year, so gather all your other single friends together and plan something fun. You could start with dinner, either homemade or at a local restaurant. If you’re interested in staying out, why not try something different like bowling or playing a rousing game of laser tag. Then there’s always the typical trip to the movie theater. Still doesn’t interest you? Get crazy and throw a party. There’s nothing like dancing and drinking all night with your besties.

2. Take yourself on a date.

There’s nothing wrong with snuggling up on the couch, or in your bed, and having a nice date with yourself. Definitely make sure you order in some yummy take out. Then, get all your favorite movies or some great books together and spend the night relaxing — you deserve it!

3. Feeling the pain?

So maybe you’re feeling a little bitter this V-day. Perhaps you’re newly single and feeling just a tad heartbroken. For those who’ve been dumped, here’s some tips to heal you pain. Step one is to collect all the pictures you have of your ex. Step two involves drinking, a lot. Finally, step three is to take out your pain on all those pictures. While I don’t suggest burning them in your dorm, perhaps a nice rip down the middle will suffice.

4. No pressure, no problem.

While people may focus on the downside of Valentine’s Day (aka not having a valentine), think of the upside — you’re single! The single life brings a whole lot less drama and pressure into your life. Instead of focusing on what you’re going to do, or have to do, for your significant other, you get to focus all that attention on yourself. And let’s be honest, sometimes the most important person is you.

5. Get outta town.

If you’re really not feeling any of these options, think about taking the trip home and spending the holiday with your family. After all, Valentine’s Day is about feeling the love, and who loves you more than your parents, sometimes your siblings and your pets? Besides, you’ll definitely get a good dinner out of the deal.